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How to Live From Your Strengths & Lead Your Family Into Theirs

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Lisa Foster, founder of ParillumeTM, shared how the Enneagram can be integrated to yield concrete, daily strategies to achieve healthy personal expression, meaningful contribution, and great relationships.  This system provides you and your sons with specific practices and techniques to leverage these insights so you can help each other shine your brightest.

Each MoB member completed the Enneagram Test so they understood which of the 9 personality descriptions best fit them. Lisa described each of the 9 Enneagram traits, and taught us what each type looked like when we are our best self and when we are not our best self. Lisa explained how we parent according to our Enneagram type. As a group we tried to find where our boys fit into the spectrum. This tool is amazing and will relieve much stress and create better communication on our boys households. 

Here is a link to a more detailed Enneagram Questionnaire to give you the insight.

We each have an original design, a unique combination of strengths, cognitive functions and personality traits.  When understood and applied, unlocks solutions in our lives, transforming problems into challenges and apparent flaws into opportunities.  

Imagine if, as a child or teen, that you had insight into your own core strengths, your cognitive functions and filters, your unique personality and drives. 

Imagine that, as a parent  you could deeply grasp your own and your children’s defining perspectives, fears, and dreams. 

Imagine that you and your sons shared an understanding of your inner worlds that provided a clear, positive path to healthy engagement and development as individuals and as a loving family.

Lisa has educated and trained teens, parents, couples, and teams , and her own son, on how to shine in their original designs.                                                                                                                 

“The privilege of a lifetime is being who you are.” Joseph Campbell

Parillume empowers those who have experienced sexual violation to continue past the survivor stage and heroically reclaim the treasure of their true selves shining in the world without shame. The Shine From Your Original Design program was developed as part of this empowerment process, and has evolved to help anyone, anywhere, shine brighter in their lives.